Breakups are rough, am I right? They can make you feel like the air has been sucked out of the room and the world has been turned upside down. Today I am going to give you some tips on how to get over a breakup, because girl, they can be painful!

Give it to God:

Hand over the breakup to God to help deal with all the bad feelings you have. It is not easy, and sometimes it is just easier to hold onto those feelings of hurt and anger towards your ex, but by asking God to take it over, you are allowing him to free you from all of those yucky feelings. He will give your heart peace! Trust that God has someone even better lined up for you in the future!

Feel the Pain:

Okay, that might sound weird, so let me explain. Don’t try and hold all of your sadness and pain in, let it out. Holding it in can be even more painful. Allowing yourself to feel the pain by crying, journaling, and praying  can give you the opportunity to discover parts of yourself and know what you are giving up to God as you go from heartache to moving on!

Do Fun Things…When You are Ready:

When a relationship ends, it’s not the end of the world, but it can sometimes feel that way! It is important to get out and live life. When you feel like you are ready to let go of your pain, get out and have some fun. Hang out with friends, go to a movie, go shopping, whatever you find enjoyable!  As you spend time with people doing the things you love, you’ll find that the pain starts to lift.

 

Girls, you are beautiful, strong, and important. Don’t let a breakup make you feel any different!

Stay strong,

Love you!

 

XOXO, Chels