Chelsea Crockett

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4 Things to Ask Yourself Before Getting into a Relationship

Getting into a relationship is a much bigger deal than people make it out to be.  It can end in either one of two ways: breaking up or marriage!   When…

Getting into a relationship is a much bigger deal than people make it out to be.  It can end in either one of two ways: breaking up or marriage!   When you put it that way and look at the bigger picture, you should make sure you’re certain about someone before you get into a relationship with them.  Here are four things to ask yourself before dating someone!

  • “Am I ready for a relationship?” First and foremost, you need to put yourself first.  Although you might like the idea of him, make sure YOU are ready to make the commitment.  You need to be sure you’re over any past relationships and are ready to date again.
  • “Does he have everything I’m looking for?” We have to set our standards, ladies!  Sometimes it even helps to write down a list of all the things you look for in someone.  Maybe it’s humor, manners, kindness, or honesty.  The list can go on and on.  Then, go from there!
  • “Are there any red flags?” These are SO important to pick out before you get into a relationship with someone.  If there’s an automatic red flag at any point, you should definitely look further into it!  Whatever it may be true or not, don’t make excuses for it unless you ask them about it first.
  • “Are you both on the same page?” Making sure you have the same morals and values is also an extremely important factor to put into play. Although opposites can attract, most times two people with similar mindsets work out a little better!

I hope this helps you next time you’re unsure about getting into a relationship! 🙂

Love, Chelsea

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It IS Okay To Say “No”

Too many of us get caught up in saying “yes”.  “Yes” to doing extra tasks, “yes” to peer pressure, and “yes” to doing things we don’t want to do.  It’s…

Too many of us get caught up in saying “yes”.  “Yes” to doing extra tasks, “yes” to peer pressure, and “yes” to doing things we don’t want to do.  It’s hard to let people down or feel like the odd one out, especially when everyone around you is participating.  Remember, it IS okay to say “no” and it can lead to an easier world!Chelsea Crockett- yes and no

When you’re the head of a club or just someone who likes to plan things, it’s easy to take on every task presented to you.  Being a “people pleaser” is both a blessing and a curse.  It’s such a wonderful attribute to want people to like and appreciate you, but it can also lead to unnecessary stress.  It’s never a good idea to take on too many tasks.  Either it leads to a mediocre job or an epic mental breakdown (every girl knows what these are like).

Stay true to yourself and do what’s best for you!  It IS okay to say “no” and believe it or not, people will understand!  It’s time to do yourself a favor!

XOXO,

Chelsea

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